Everyone dislikes being cheated on and thanks to this relationship expert you may be able to avoid this happening to you – just watch out for these key warning signs.
TikTok relationship expert @restoringrelationships has revealed the kay warning signs that cheating could be the horizon in a relationship.
Focusing on avoidant and anxious attachment styles, the TikToker explains how issues within a relationship can manifest differently depending on the individual’s style.
Within relationships there is a bond between the two individuals involved, but when issues occur this can cause triangulation.
When those with an avoidant personality face issues in a relationship they tend to externalise this and may go outside the relationship to get their emotional needs met. This doesn’t necessarily mean cheating – it could instead be work or some other outside force.
Contrasting this, those with an anxious attachment style will internalise the problems within their relationship. This can cause stress between the couple and can lead to further issues if not communicated effectively.
According to the relationship expert if those with anxious personalities feel like their emotional needs are not being met this can manifest in anxiety and depression.
In a relationship between two individuals with different attachment styles, they may both feel like their emotional issues aren’t being met and therefore look to turn to these other outlets for this.
Restoring Relationships links these issues to cheating saying: “basically if your partner is constantly going outside the relationship to get their needs met, whether it’s through work or avoiding, literally anything like that, that to me are warning signs that cheating could happen.”
She adds that another strain on the relationship can be either partner’s family, arguing that following marriage there should be a “leaving and cleaving” stage, where they leave the original families to form a new one.
needs met by their partner.
If this stage doesn’t occur then rather than getting their emotional needs met by their partner, individuals may instead get these needs met from their families, particularly in the case of those with an avoidant attachment style.
This story originally appeared on The Sun and was reproduced here with permission.
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